According to a 2017 survey

Industrial Vibrators

Honestly, finding a good vibrator to use during intercourse is harder than you’d think. Too small, and you or your partner might have trouble holding on to it in the heat of the moment. From its name to its design , the Maude Vibe exudes cool-girl energy — it has that perfect mix of seeming effortlessness while also being entirely capable and impressive. Customers appreciate the massager’s variety of modes that cater to different needs. If budget is no object, then our winning Womanizer Clitoral Suction Toy is easy to use, effective and discreet. Described as “one of the best rabbits I have ever tried” by one tester, it’s no wonder the Glow Bunny scored so highly in our tests.

The folks at Satisfyer sent me a few of their app-friendly toys recently and a partner and I decided to try a few out (for science). On top of some extensive solo research, I’m here to give you a run-down of a few of their app-controlled sex toys that you might want to pick up ASAP. The other side of the toy—which functions as the handle of the wand portion—is a 5.75-inch long dildo with a motor that allows it to vibrate, twirl, or twist. When used as a dildo, the Vibrato can help people who enjoy penetration get theirs, Weiss says. Many vulva-owners enjoy penetration even more after a clitoral orgasm, as the vagina often expands and becomes more lubricated in response to pleasure, she says. As such, she loves that each side of the vibrator can provide a different kind of orgasm.

This cheekily named Four Play set from Evolved involves four toys in one. “Just as much as they’re good for solo play, they’re also perfect to use during intercourse, as they’re unintimidating and small enough not to get in the way,” Alvarez Story says. “Bullet vibes are only designed for external use, not as much for insertion,” as they don’t have a flared base so they shouldn’t be used anally. But ironically, women’s sexual pleasure was the furthest thing from the minds of the male doctors who invented vibrators almost two centuries ago. Therein hangs a strange tale that provides quirky insights into both the history of sex toys and cultural notions about women’s sexuality. So when I heard about a three-in-one toy from Playboy’s Pleasure line called the Vibrato ($136, babeland.com), which functions as a wand vibrator, a vibrating dildo, and a G-spot stimulator, I decided to give it a spin.

With five low-volume vibrational speeds and five patterns, this medium-size plug is covered in smooth body-safe silicone, is fully waterproof and comes equipped with an easy-to-grip circular handle. It’s ideal to use as a lead-up to penetrative anal sex, as well as a way to take oral sex, vaginal sex and masturbation to the next level. The Womanizer has established itself as a leader in suction sex toys, and its new Womanizer Next option is a real clitoral hero. The Ambi appears to have a pretty non-traditional shape for a bullet vibe, but it’s basically a bullet with a handle attached, which can make it more ergonomic.

In turn, you can share said information with a partner to make your sexual exploits infinitely more pleasurable. According to a 2017 survey, vibrators make up more than 70% of the sex toys owned by people who identify as women. We-Vibe and Lovehoney partnered up for a device that delivers a totally hands-free vibing session. It has ten quiver-inducing speeds and vibration patterns that you can play with via wireless remote control. That means on-the-go pleasure that you can take with you into the bedroom, your partner’s apartment, and even the shower. “Masturbation allows you to lean into pleasure—what makes you orgasm, what your body responds to — and this will enhance partner sex too,” Zar adds.

Even folks who have yet to dip their toe into the sex toy world have heard about the best vibrators and the innovation sex tech has brought us this century. Originally, they were merely crude dildos that just happened to vibrate. As a deeper understanding of the human anatomy has come to light, vibrators are designed to transcend archaic stereotypes about what sexual pleasure should be. Though certain designs have their drawbacks, vibrators, overall, are pretty versatile in terms of where you can place them. A G-spot toy usually can’t be used anally, but that doesn’t mean you can’t use their buzzy sensations to massage your erogenous zones. However, due to their usually small size, external vibrators tend to be the best option for placement play.

But the vibrator bends exactly the way you want it, so you can hit just the right spots. This Je Joue option (as its name indicates) is the love-child of the classic rabbit and fun-sized bullet vibrator, with ears that flutter against or hug the clit for orgasmic ripples. Just shy of four inches long vibrators, it’s ideal for when you want all the clitoral stimulation of a rabbit vibe in a pocket-friendly size. “Don’t be fooled by how cute this toy is—the low rumble of Je Joue’s motor packs some serious power for an intense climax,” Babeland brand manager Lisa Finn previously told SELF. Just note that, unlike other rabbit vibrators, this one doesn’t target the G-spot. A favorite of sex-toy blogger Epiphora, the bejeweled pastel Pillow Talk Sassy is affordably priced and offers powerful vibrations that can work for either clitoral or G-spot stimulation.

Whether you prefer a gentle hum or a more intense pulsation, you can tailor the experience to your liking. Control the speed and strength of the vibrations to find the perfect level of intensity for your needs. Richards recommends this classic toy, which he considers “the gold standard of vibrators,” for anyone who wants to introduce strong sensations into their sex life, regardless of their gender or anatomy. “If you find [it] a bit intense, using it over underwear is a way to enjoy the buzzing sensation on clits and cocks without excessive direct stimulation,” he suggests.

My favorite part about the Satisfyer Pro 2 is the shape — it almost looks like a hairbrush with a small nose on the top. The only part that really vibrates is that little nose, so your wrist or hands don’t feel numb from the vibrations. The Fin’s tether also easily slips off even if you’re in the middle of using it, and the buzzing is quiet enough that it won’t distract you (or wake the neighbors). It’s water-resistant, too, and made of medical-grade silicone, making it great for anyone with sensitive skin. Its pointy side can be a little intense with its targeted vibrations, though. I found myself feeling over-sensitive and needing a break after a few minutes of extended use.

The nozzle’s opening is larger, with a thinner, softer rim, and it creates a sensation that is more gentle and diffuse in comparison with other suction vibrators, which can feel uncomfortably intense at times. Two primary factors may impact sex-toy selection for trans, nonbinary, and other gender-diverse people. The first is the use of hormones or gender-affirming surgeries that may impact genital function in a variety of ways. The second is the psychological component of genital dysphoria experienced by some trans and nonbinary people. Trans women may feel more comfortable using vibrators rather than toys marketed as “male strokers,” as it is more gender-affirming. Conversely, some of our transmasculine sources expressed a preference for air-suction or mini stroker toys that can be penetrated over traditional clitoral vibrators.