After experiencing sexual trauma

Can Using a Vibrator Too Much Be Harmful?

The ‘rabbit ears’ have three speeds, while the shaft offers nine patterns and three speeds, along with a curved head for optimal G-spot stimulation. You can also tap into turbo mode with a double-click of the button, which ultimately ended up being my favorite speed. The Mini can be used to stimulate all of your favorite external erogenous zones, and you can do so even more discreetly than with its predecessor, thanks to its size. While plenty of other vibrating cock rings here can be used solo, the Jett is the only one designed expressly for alone time.

Instead, we’re reminding you to think carefully about when you’ll be using your vibrator, what you want from it, and how your body responds to stimulation. Fin is a petite vibrator that you wear between your fingers to add to your experience. There are three speed options plus a pointy side and squishy side, so you can experiment. Le Wand is cordless and boasts a charge time of three hours, tied with the Magic Wand as the longest charge time on this list. It’s also the only wand that comes with a travel pouch, which is a major plus.

To this day, I have friends, of all ages and relationship statuses, who can only orgasm when using a Womanizer product, and I’m sure the Enhance will continue that pattern. Sexual violence isn’t an uncommon experience, and even though we’ve made strides in talking about it, we still don’t talk much about its after-effects. After experiencing sexual trauma, many people experience a range of sexual difficulties, including — but certainly not only — sexual avoidance.

But she says there isn’t much to the notion that using them “too much” will decrease sensation or the ability to orgasm in the long-term. She says as women become more comfortable with vibrators, they will also become more familiar with their own erotic responsiveness, which can assist with their non-vibe sexual encounters. Actually, there have been research studies that show that vibe use has benefits that go beyond a quick and easy orgasm. A study out of the University of Colorado showed that vibrators have a host of benefits for those who suffer from some sexual arousal or sensation problems and may work to heal underlying nerve damage. The Starlet is a small but mighty toy that is designed with pleasure air technology that gently sucks and massages.

Our expert panel tested the best clitoral stimulation sex toys on the market. So the suction toy’s ability to surround the clit and give it a wealth of strong but not abrasive buzzing — which has its place, but sometimes can be too much for this sensitive spot — is part of why they are such a hit. And, on top of that, they can often be used to stimulate your nipples too, which is a pretty solid two-fer. I’m a firm believer that everyone’s sex toy collection should contain a variety of vibrators—especially a bullet vibrator, which is essentially what the Vesper Mini is.

It’s made up of a silicone sleeve that holds two bullet vibrators, one of which has a higher-pitched “treble” frequency versus the other’s lower “bass” frequency. Get the Jett situated just right—high on the shaft—and the vibrators press against your sensitive frenulum. The remote (which is wired, awkwardly) lets you control the vibrators separately to nail your own “oh WOW” combo of buzz and rumble.

These can be manually stroked up and down, as the name would suggest—or you can anchor the toy in place with something like a Fleshlight mount and thrust in and out of it for a more sex-like experience. When Womanizer first launched this concept, it called this innovation Pleasure Air Technology. Although that technology still remains, other suction toys have come up with their own version that is just as good, if not better, depending on your preference. Le Wand Point is a very intentionally structured slow-burn vibrator; it has a slight curve to lay flat on your vulva and engraved wavy ridges for a unique, textural feel.

But if you’ve got a ring that’s flexible enough, like this favorite of Zizelman’s , it can be stretched around the base of your shaft and your balls, increasing its positive effects. “Around the shaft, you are going to get restricted blood flow to help keep a strong and longer-lasting erection,” Zizelman says. But despite the balls and scrotum typically being relegated to a supporting role (if that) in any given sexual encounter, there are countless inventive ways to stimulate them. For instance viberator, cupping them, stroking them, and tugging on them can feel good. Vibrators, cock rings, and ball-stretchers can all create interesting scrotal sensations.